I was a single parent for the first four years of my son's life. Now Cheap Jerseys From China , there are two kinds of single parents: those who are co-parenting with a non-resident parent and those who are simply raising their children alone. I was in this latter category and you know what? I liked it. Of course, there were times when it was hard and I felt resentful and angry at having no one to share the burden ? or the first smiles ? with. But for the most part, I was fine being a single mom for one reason: I didn't have to compromise with anyone about how to raise my child. I knew he would never be spanked; that he would be raised in a positive, loving environment; that he would be taught my spiritual beliefs; that he would disciplined in appropriate ways.


Being a single parent, with or without a co-parent, is a special challenge. Following Cheap Jerseys China , you will find two sets of single-parenting strategies, one for each type of single parent. Taking the time to implement strategies one at a time gives you and your children the space to get used to new ways of being. Try them on, see how they work for you, tweak them as necessary and create the family of your dreams!


Strategies for Non-Resident Co-Parents


? Respect: No matter what your personal relationship with your co-parent (and, perhaps, his or her spouse) looks like; you must speak about him or her with respect in front of your children. If you need to vent Cheap Jerseys , call a friend or your mom or talk to the dog, but never, never disparage your child's parent. There must be something good about your co-parent, so focus on that and let the other stuff go. Remember, you will always, for the rest of your lives Cheap College Soccer Jerseys , be co-parents, so you might as well make the best of it.


? Common Ground: The most successful co-parenting teams work together to make sure that the children are getting the same type of discipline and support at both homes. One of the best ways to do this is to define your values and use them as a guidepost for both homes. Write them down, make a poster or collage and hang it in each home. The more consistency your child has, the happier she will be.


? Scheduling: The co-par